We gathered—foreigners in this beautiful nation of Japan. Representing many nations, we came from across the country, from Hokkaido to Oita and many places in between. Some have lived here for over 40 years, others barely a month or two.

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Slowly, a theme began to emerge.

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It started with a conversation about language—our mother tongues and regional dialects. That familiar sound that, no matter how far you've travelled, makes your heart say, “I’m home,” when you finally hear it again. It’s that deep recognition when your language is spoken—you know you’re among your people. Home.

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Then the conversation moved into more complicated waters.

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What does “home” mean for TCKs—Third Culture Kids? Children who hold a passport from one country, speak that language at home, but grow up in another, speaking the language of that land outside. Many TCKs struggle with feeling like outsiders, never fully belonging, except in one space: that third culture. That space where their lives intersect with others who share the same experience.

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On the last day, around teatime, we were invited to something special.

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To our surprise, we walked into a room where a long table was set, overflowing with beautiful, delicious treats: fruits, breads, crackers, a variety of cheeses, honey, nuts, cured meats, sweets, mochi, and cookies. The table itself was a work of art, lovingly decorated with care and intention. It was called The Father’s Table.

The Father’s Table… a place of love, warmth, and safety. A place where you feel at home and know you belong.

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Our Creator—our loving Father—sees beyond the surface, beyond the things we often get caught up in. He sees the beauty of all He placed within you. Yes, He knows the struggles and burdens you carry, but He speaks to what He planted in your heart from the beginning. And He invites you to come home to Him.

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✨ Take a moment to reflect:

• Where is home for you? Is it a place, a language, or a people?
• Have you ever felt like an outsider? What helped you feel like you belonged?
• What would it mean for you to sit at the Father’s Table today, just as you are, and hear the words, “You are home”?

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Reply to this email, and let me know where your heart finds its home today.